So I went on a hunt looking for 2 mom baby memory books and well yes, I found them but they were almost 80 bucks for a book when you can go to local walmart and pay 20 bucks for one?? Why are things like this so expensive?? I know that T and I are not the only same sex family bringing a child into this world?
I get so irritated from being asked who I slept with to get pregnant? Do people not realize that there are other methods to getting pregnant besides insert PENIS into vag?? It kinda is a slap in the face for people to assume that I would lower my morals to get pregnant?!
We have been looking into me taking T's last name that way all 3 of us have the same name and well living in Tn it can be rather difficult for me to take her last name once the explanation has been given to the judge of why I want it? So right now we are just going to name our daughter with her last name and after we move states I will take T's last name...
You would think being 2012 that we would be a lot further in the fight for equality and it feels as if some states are making progress and some countries but other's are still stuck in the stone age..
I love when people tell me I chose to be a lesbian! Yes, I chose to be discriminated against for who I love. I chose to be a " second class citizen", I chose to have to explain to my children why there are poeple out there that hate our life style... For me being a lesbian isn't a life style is MY life... I live it everyday.... I hate going to the OBGYN and he calls my wife my friend becuase he refuses to see that we can love each other and be good parents as two women!!
Ok those are my rants for the day... Just got to thinking and I really need to get more involved in the non-gay community in Tn!!
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